A Real Housewife

2011-12-04T15:30:00.000-06:00

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Mommy Doesn't Like Peas Either

2011-03-10T13:11:00.002-06:00

And Here's What You Missed On...

2011-03-07T21:19:00.002-06:00

Hi, my name is Erin, and I've been a bad blogger. It's been one week and two days since my last post and even longer since a post with any real sustenance. Life has really gotten ahead of me lately. The "I'll get blogging tomorrow" turned into "Oh crap! It's been a week since I've even turned on my computer." I have yet to find the balance between managing my daily activities and Nolan. Naturally I always choose the latter over anything else, and find myself falling behind in everything. I have a project list that is quickly piling up to what seems like the sky; my house isn't as neat and tidy as usual; I have unopened emails that are weeks old; and I can't remember the last time I commented on blogs. Please forgive me. Eventually I promise to figure out a healthy balance of 'me' time that I can devote to blogging and those precious moments I spend with my son. To all you Mommies out there--How do you find the time for blogging while being a Mommy and keeping up with all other activities?

Here's what's been going on lately in our household:

I am officially a Gleek (you are, too, if you caught the reference in my post title ;). I watched the first couple of shows on Netflix and was instantly hooked. Thanks, Allena!
Nolan got too big for his britches. Literally. He graduated from a 1 to a 2! And miraculously he now sleeps through the night...like from 9:15pm to 6/7am. Amen!! I'm not sure why I didn't think of the diaper size before, especially considering we woke up several times to wet bedsheets in the middle of the night. Uh, duh, Mommy!
I attended my first JBF sale. Such an awesome concept. I can't wait for the fall sale; I have tubs already packed full of items to sell.
I got food poisoning this past weekend. WORST.NIGHT.EVER. Misery times a billion.
Two weekends ago was spent with two of my favorite ladies, Dez & Susie, Nolan's honorary Aunt's. The sleepover was much needed and so fun. Love these two.
I started and stopped reading The Bluest Eye. I couldn't even get through the first chapter. Not a fan.
Aaron put up new fencing this weekend and now wants to build us a deck. I am super excited!
We had our monthly girl's get together. So glad we can come together at least once a month, and now four of us have new babies! One born just yesterday.
Nolan attended his first baseball game--Daddy's high school alumni baseball game.

I'm positive I am leaving about a million things out, but my brain is fried. Don't give up on me yet! I'll get everything in balance soon and be back to showing you all the bloggy love you deserve.

Happy Three Months, Kiddo!

2011-02-26T15:45:00.003-06:00

Photos by Pistols & Pearls Photography

Bookshelf

2011-02-23T20:20:00.004-06:00

Miss me? The Ellis household has been very busy lately! Plus, I can't seem to peel my eyes from this cutie:
I have been able to get a couple more books read in my free time, though. My Kindle is a real life saver!

While Godless may be a major award winner in literary circles, I wasn't feeling it. I understand the message the novel is trying to convey, but it didn't really come across. There wasn't any great character development or real depth to the story; I felt the book as a whole fell flat.

Linger left me heartbroken and wanting more. Maggie delivered in her sequel to Shiver; I'm not sure how long I can wait for the final chapter of the Wolves of Mercy Falls series. Please hurry!

Up next on my bookshelf:

Our Three-Month-Old

2011-02-17T21:43:00.005-06:00

Yesterday marked 3 months since Nolan's arrival. Little Man has changed so much in just a month!

This month...

At last week's doctor's visit you weighed 11.5 lbs and were 23 inches long. I know you are bigger than that now. You are growing like a weed!
You got your first cold this month followed by an ear infection in the right ear. Luckily it never seemed to get your spirits down, and you've been on antibiotics for the last ten days.
Your strength is unbelievable to me, not that I have anything to compare it to. You hold your head up really well; can lift your head and neck very high off the ground when we have tummy time; you lift yourself up a little with your arms when on your stomach; you kick...hard; and you've got a nice vice grip. You have found and pulled Mommy's hair a few times now.
Three times I've found you on your back in your crib; you sleep on your stomach! Today you did roll yourself on your side during play time, but couldn't quite figure out how to roll all the way over. It seems like when we don't get to you fast enough in the crib, you are mad enough to have the strength to roll over all the way.
Mommy was finally smart enough to bring out the Flip video camera. Getting your laugh on camera is the BEST.THING.EVER.
Breast milk is your drug of choice. Thankfully you eat a lot more at a time now so I don't have to pump as much. I have been feeding you a bit of yogurt each day since you're on antibiotics. The pediatrician asked me to give it to you while you're taking meds so you get the proper balance of probiotics. While he recommended I mix it with water and give it to you through a bottle, I threw caution to the wind and feed it to you straight from a spoon. It may be a little messy, but you eat it pretty well! Your poop is certainly a little more nasty now...
You love riding in the Baby Bjorn, face forward so you can see everything; you are kind of over the Moby; you have almost mastered sitting well in the Bumbo but aren't quite there yet.
Clothing size: practically busting out of 0-3 months; 3 months fits great; 3-6 months are a little big but wearable
Diaper size: 1-2
Your longest nap is usually after your morning feeding; you also take a noonish nap and an early evening nap. Bedtime is typically 8:30, with your next feeding about 2am. Sometimes, you don't wake up until 5:30am, though!
Favorite toy: Sophie the Giraffe (I'm no doctor, but I swear you have begun teething!); Baby Einstein Ocean Adventure play mat (you and the Octopus carry on quite the conversation)
Singing songs, "jumping" on the bed, the kissing and tickle games still bring the giggles.
The pacifier is a hit or miss with you, which is really nice. You don't need it to sleep, but sometimes you just like to have something to suck on. The Monkey pacimal pacifier is a nice to have--you are learning to hold, take out of your mouth and sometimes even stick it back in your mouth on your own.

Happy 3 Months, Kiddo! We love you to the moon and back!

Nolan, The Tickle Monster

2011-02-15T10:51:00.002-06:00

His laugh will be my demise. I'll never be able to scold this cutie with this giggle!

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Zesty Lime Chicken a la Erin

2011-02-12T19:13:00.002-06:00

Wednesday night I whipped up a dish completely void of recipe books and totally winged it. My chicken dish was delicious if I may say so myself! My husband cleaned his plate and packed the leftovers for lunch the following day. I think it's safe to say this recipe is a crowd pleaser.

Ingredients:
4 boneless skinless chicken breast halves
2 eggs
6-8 limes
1 1/2 C bread crumbs
2 Tbs (or to taste) Chili powder
1 Tbs (or to taste) Garlic powder

Preheat oven to 375*. Spray 13x9 baking dish with cooking spray. In a small bowl, mix the eggs and the juice of 2-3 limes. In a separate dish mix the bread crumbs, chili powder and garlic powder. Dip the chicken first in the egg mixture and then the bread crumb mixture before putting in the baking dish. Squeeze 3-4 limes over the covered chicken breasts in the baking dish. Quarter a lime and place it around the chicken. Bake chicken, uncovered, for 30 minutes.

I served this dish with Spanish rice and guacamole. Enjoy!

The Boots

2011-02-09T09:03:00.002-06:00

I asked my readers to weigh in on a couple of products I was/am in the market for. I haven't made the final decision on the jogging stroller yet, but I found the perfect rain boot. After doing a little research and reading suggestions from readers, I purchased the Hunter Original Tall Welly in Violet this morning. Behold:

I can't wait to slip these beauties over my chilly toes! I also purchased the Welly Sock in Cream to go inside the boots. These boots can't be purchased on the Hunter website; I found the exact color and size I wanted through Zappos.

I was going back and forth between this brand and Sperry's rain boots. I went with Hunter over the latter for the appearance of the boot. I wasn't a huge fan of the bottom of the Sperry's, and I like the height and color that's offered with the Hunter.

An Ear Infection Isn't Going to Sour My Mood

2011-02-08T17:04:00.003-06:00

We visited the pediatrician today. Nolan has been congested for almost two weeks. I tried to get him in to the doctor last week, but then the ice storm hit and the office canceled our appointment. When it wasn't any better I called again yesterday. His doctor discovered an ear infection along with a minor cold. Poor baby! Luckily, his chipper mood has not been affected by the infection or having to take antibiotics. I took this video earlier this afternoon.

I Need Recommendations

2011-02-07T11:20:00.002-06:00

I am in the market for two completely unrelated items and am soliciting your advice. Please help!

1) Rain boots. With the dreadful weather around here my Uggs aren't cutting it. They aren't waterproof, and everywhere outside is covered in a thick layer of slush. Naturally I am in the market for something practical yet stylish. What do you recommend?

2) Jogging stroller. No I do not plan to enter myself and Nolan in the next marathon. I don't even plan to actually jog with him in this new stroller. I am looking for something with more heavy duty tires better equipped for fast paced walking both on and off road. I would like to spend no more than $200 since I won't be using it as much as his Chicco Travel System stroller. What do you recommend?

Chicken with Pan Sauce

2011-02-05T20:09:00.002-06:00

One of my Project 52 goals was to try a new recipe each week and blog about its success or disaster. I was given two awesome cookbooks for Christmas and am planning to cook my way through them. This recipe comes from the Better Homes New Cookbook, 15th Edition. LOVED it in a major way. Both Aaron and I were practically licking our plates clean after going back for seconds. Porkers.

Ingredients:
4 skinless, boneless chicken breast halves
5 Tbs cold butter
2/3 C dry white wine
1/2 C chicken broth
1/4 C finely chopped shallot/onion
2 Tbs whipping cream

1) Pound chicken to 1/4 in thickness. Sprinkle chicken w/ 1/4 tsp salt and 1/4 tsp pepper
2) In a very large skillet melt 1 Tbs butter over medium-high heat. Reduce heat to medium. Add chicken to skillet. Cook chicken for 6-8 minutes, turning once. Transfer chicken to platter; cover with foil. Remove skillet from heat.
3) Add wine, broth and onion to hot skillet. Return skillet to heat. Cook and stir to scrape up the browned bits from the bottom of the pan. Bring to boiling. Boil gently, uncovered, about 10 minutes or until liquid is reduced to 1/4 C. Reduce heat to medium-low.
4) Stir in cream. Add remaining 4 Tbs butter, 1 Tbs at a time, stirring until butter melts after each addition. Sauce should be slightly thickened. Season to taste with additional salt and pepper. Serve sauce over chicken.

I served this chicken with rice and a spinach salad.

Enjoy!

Momma Said There'd Be Days Like This

2011-02-04T12:31:00.004-06:00

...there'd be days like this, my momma said.

Mommy and Nolan had a 'terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day' yesterday. Some days are just going to be rough; I know this. There is no handbook that can get you through days like these, either. My saving grace came in the form of my husband and Sam Adams Boston Lager (don't judge...the baby was put to bed before busting out the booze).

By 7:30am, I had spit up on my face, shirt and pants. By 11:30am, Nolan had gotten two baths. Between 2 and 4pm, Nolan spit up seven times; had his clothes changed 5 times in 10 minutes; and I gave up after three shirt changes for myself in 30 minutes. I eventually went to bed in clothes with dried vomit. Between his amazing bouts of laughter, there was quite a bit of screaming and only three 30 minute naps. Days like these make you want to rip your hair out, especially since I had been cooped up in the house for three days straight due to horrible weather. Several times when Nolan was screaming, I would scream, too. He didn't think it was very funny. I love my son, but Aaron couldn't have walked in the door a minute sooner. Is that wrong?

Don't misunderstand me. I would take a million of these rough days for even just one of Nolan's smiles. No one said being a Mommy is easy, and boy were they right! You've got to have a huge heart and be one tough cookie before entering into this business. After being spit up on or screamed at, all you need to do is look down in your baby's eyes. Knowing he puts all his faith in me, makes my world right again...even if I'm wiping spit up off my arm at the same time. Once he finally fell asleep in my arms last night with Aaron by my side, all it took was for me to look at his face before the waterworks started. I am so blessed to have Aaron for his father and Nolan as our son. When I said out loud, "I can't believe he's mine," Aaron quickly corrected that to "ours." Whoops!

Exactly why the rough days are worth it

Baby It's Cold Outside

2011-02-02T20:46:00.003-06:00

More like really effing cold. I hate it. Especially since I have been cooped up in this house for two days now. It's too cold to even step foot outside, not that I would. I am not a fan of this kind of cold. There is no nice fluffy snow for Frosty; instead we have ridiculous winds, heavy sleet and solid ice on the grounds. Businesses and schools are closed; rolling blackouts have turned in to full days and nights without power (thank god we aren't one of them but so many right around us weren't so lucky); and pipes are freezing everywhere leaving many without water. Straight misery combined with cabin fever. Ugh. The only silver lining of this situation is that I get more time with my husband and I'm stuck in the house with this little man...

To keep myself from going completely crazy I'm catching up on my favorite dvr'd shows, watching season 1 of Glee (I'm officially a Gleek!), perfecting my fire making skills (I suck...I'll leave that to Aaron), making homemade Chicken Noodle Soup and lasagna, cleaning my house...twice and doing a million loads of laundry, and playing all day long with Little Man.

How do you keep from catching Cabin Fever when the weather gets bad?

Born Ready

2011-01-31T21:59:00.003-06:00

Dear Nolan,

You'll be asked hundreds of times "What do you want to be when you grow up?" Until the day you were born, even though I had a full time job, I could never answer this question with any conviction. Now I know why. I was born to be your Mommy. You have created the one career I am best at. Thank you.

While you may be 10 weeks 6 days old, it took me just a week to settle in and become completely comfortable in this new position. I must say, I think I'm fairing well. I did luck out, though; you are a pretty good boss. And, yes, you are definitely the new head of management around here. We have a nice groove going, you and I. As each day passes I know in my heart this is what I was made for. I can answer whole heartedly when asked "What do you want to be when you grow up." I want to be Nolan's Mommy. While I may have to go back to work eventually, for now this is exactly where I am supposed to be.

I never pictured such a colorful job description would satisfy me, but I love every second. For instance, near the end of many a mid-morning feeding, you let rip a powerful explosion that usually results in crap. Everywhere. Like on Mommy's arm, everywhere. Surprisingly I don't freak out or even mind. Instead I wait until you've finished feeding and burping before I change and clean you. Only then do I find whatevers nearest to wipe off my own arm. Or when you vomit down my unsuspecting boob crack and I just shrug as I continue patting your back while singing "Hush Little Baby" until your stomach has settled. If you're screaming by the time Mommy gets out of the shower, I perform one of your personal favorites "The Hokey Pokey" before ever even drying off. I am perfecting my silly faces and nursery rhymes. I love changing rancid diapers and having compassion for the dairy cows of the world. I don't mind changing your clothes ten times a day because of spit up, doing endless loads of laundry, or that you pee in the tub when we bathe together. Your happiness is my everything; my world revolves around you.

Nolan, you won't find me putting in my application anywhere else. I wouldn't quit this job for the world. Now that I proudly wear the title of Mommy on my name tag, I know this was the career path I was always meant to take.

Love,

Mommy

PS...Will my bonus arrive by mail?

FREE MONEY!!

2011-01-31T21:33:00.002-06:00

CSN wants to host another giveaway on my blog. This time we're teaming up to give the winner a $45 gift card to use towards whatever your heart desires! CSN has over 200 online stores to choose from, where you can find anything from outdoor playsets, furniture, home decorating goods, cookware and much more.

To enter in this giveaway, you must be a follower of my blog.

Earn entries by (please leave a separate comment for each entry):

1. Being a follower earns you one entry (must be a follower to enter).

2. Write a post on your blog linking back to the giveaway

3. Leave a post in your sidebar linking back to the giveaway

4. Tweet the giveaway on Twitter

Giveaway winner will be announced Friday, 2/4. GOOD LUCK!!!

Bookworm

2011-01-26T16:55:00.003-06:00

It hasn't been easy finding time to devote to reading lately. When Baby is down for a nap, Mommy is usually cleaning, taking a shower or stuffing my face. My husband was super sweet to leave a Kindle under the Christmas tree for me this year, though. I find it much easier to read while pumping, feeding Nolan or rocking him to sleep. Reading an actual paperback while accomplishing these tasks is pretty difficult. So far in 2011 I've only been able to read two books, but have been mostly pleased with both.

Crescendo is the sequel to Becca Fitzpatrick's, Hush, Hush. There are three books in the series, which includes a hot, supernatural main character. Need I say more? I've really enjoyed reading the first two and can't wait for the third and final chapter.

I heart The Hunger Games series. Amazing. Mockingjay's ending was actually a bit disappointing to me, but I still highly recommend reading the series. I think there's a powerful message behind the novels.

Up next on my reading list:

Damn You, Girl Scouts

2011-01-24T09:56:00.002-06:00

Damn you. I forgot about these cute little crack dealers dressed in green when I made a weight goal this year. I'd like to change my goal weight from 120 to 145.

I'm Stylish, You Say?

2011-01-22T13:52:00.002-06:00

I really didn't think puke covered t-shirts and unwashed hair were today's latest fashions. Ok, so maybe it's not me so much as my blog that's stylish. But, hey, I'll take it! Thanks so much to Mitzi @ the goodsons family journey for bestowing me the Stylish Blogger Award!

My Duties as the Stylish Queen:
1. Link back to the person that gave you this award
2. Share 7 things about yourself
3. Award 10 great bloggers

7 Things You've Always Wanted to Know:
1. Breastfeeding is exhausting. I am so thankful I can provide this awesome nutrition for my son, but it has also forced me to be a slave to my own breasts. I have to plan everything around my son's feeding and my pumping schedule. I'll admit, I have wanted to give up a couple of times and switch to formula. I can't bring myself to do it, though. I feel like I'd be cheating him, and then I realize I can do this and this won't last forever.
2. I don't have a stylish, cosmetic bone in my body. I can't apply makeup or fix my hair perfectly to save my life.
3. I got a Kindle for Christmas and have only had time to read one book. I'm just now starting on my second. Shameful.
4. I recently became a SAHM and love every second of it...even when that means I'm covered in puke.
5. I have read the Twilight series twice now and Twilight itself 4 or 5 times. Total Twi-hard.
6. Yogurt makes me gag. Even chocolate yogurt.
7. My favorite sport is baseball; I don't get football at all. NFL Sundays are my least favorite days. Aaron gets so annoyed because I pick which team I want to win based on their "outfits." =)

I'm cheating: Nolan isn't napping well today, so I would like to award all my followers. I think you are all worthy of being anointed Stylish Queen!

Project 52: Goals for 2011

2011-01-21T14:58:00.003-06:00

I stumbled across this post a while ago and fell in love with the concept. Project 52 is a challenge to accomplish 52 goals (duh) in 2011. Goals, not resolutions. When I think of resolutions, wishes come to mind. Goals, however, seem much more tangible and attainable to me. Now I realize February is already fast approaching, but I've been a little busy, ok? And, no, being on time is NOT one of my goals this year. Some of my goals may seem a little silly to you, but I am really looking forward to becoming my own task master and accomplishing all 52 of my goals by December 31, 2011. If you'd like to participate, click on the button to link up...

Join 2 Mommy groups
Read 20 non-parenting books
Try 1 new recipe a week and blog about it, good or bad
Eat 1 piece of fruit per day
Try 2 new kinds of fruit (can you tell I'm not a fruit eater?)
Complete 1 DIY project a month
Visit our family in New York
Organize our photo albums
Print more photos
Take Nolan to 5 Texas Rangers' games
Go to the Fort Worth Science Museum
Buy only 3 pair of shoes OR less for myself
Teach Nolan baby sign language
Put $50 each month in Nolan's savings account
Repaint the guest bedroom
Put new flooring in guest bedroom
Clean the bathrooms once a week
Meet 1 blog friend
Comment on 5 blog posts per day
Fill out, and continually update, Nolan's baby book
Go to the zoo twice
Weed the backyard garden and plant new plants
Reach my goal weight of 120
Bake a cheesecake
Ride my bike
Clean base boards every other week
Use our treadclimber twice a week
Bake something new once a month
Start a weekly recurring post
Volunteer for an organization
Find a way to earn income without taking on a full time job
Get more active with Scentsy (doesn't count for #31)
Get a public library card
See a movie in the theater once a month
See a musical at Bass Hall
Take a road trip
Donate leftover breast milk to the Texas Milk Bank
Go on a weekend getaway with my husband, without our son
Visit 4 cities in Texas other than DFW, Austin and Katy
Continue practicing yoga
Take Nolan to The Art Barn at least 3 times
Fill out the form and send off for Nolan's birth certificate
Hang the two pendant lights, that have been sitting in our garage for three years (!!!), in our bedroom
Give myself a pedicure every other time I'm due for one
Have a weekly Skype session with Jammy & Pops (my parents)
Don't let food spoil before we're able to use it
Transfer iTunes and all my music from our old computer to our new one
Do not get a speeding ticket
Eat dinner at the dinner table, with the tv off
Pay off 1 credit card
Turn our garage into a playroom/game room
Take milestone photos of Nolan monthly during his first year

What are your goals for 2011?

Our Two-Month-Old

2011-01-19T12:06:00.003-06:00

Nolan officially turned two months on Sunday, 1-16-11. Time is flying...too fast!

Let's see what's been happening this month...

You are 10.5 lbs and 23 inches long. Your pediatrician was really impressed with your growth, especially since you only eat breast milk. I'm thinking you are going to be tall like your Daddy!
You are very strong. You love to whip your head back and forth really fast, scoot like crazy when you're on your belly and push off Mommy and Daddy with your legs when you want to play.
Smiles and laughing take up most of your time. You like when we sing to you, especially "Itsy Bitsy Spider," and you love the kissing game Mommy made up. But when Daddy gets home and holds you in his arms, he doesn't have to do anything to make you laugh; just staring up at him really gets your giggles going. CUTEST.THING.EVER.
You still love bath time, and seem to enjoy that we've started a nightly routine. Bath, pj's, rocking and reading, then lights out by 9. You sleep until 3am before waking again to eat. Thank you!
You sleep on your tummy and have since about 4 weeks old.
You still spit up quite a bit. This doesn't seem to bother you as if it were acid reflux, and you are growing well. Our washer and dryer are really taking a beating, though.
You and I started a Mommy & Me Yoga class this month. Out of 9 other babies you are the youngest by two weeks. You love when we do our stretches and breathing exercises. Sometimes when it gets too quiet, you like to start laughing really loud. You've also burped really loud to show the other girls who the manly man is.
We put a 'kick & play piano' in your crib, and you really enjoy knowing that you are the one making the music play. If I can stop staring at you long enough, this usually gives Mommy about 20 minutes of free time.
You've discovered your voice. You love "talking," laughing, and in the last week you have started to scream every once in a while. Not a crying scream, but a "Hey! Look at me! I'm too freaking cute and just realized I know how to be loud" scream. When you are upset, you can go from silent to wailing in about two seconds. Very impressive.
When Jammy & Pops (my parents) are on speakerphone, you stare at the phone, smile and start talking and laughing with them. I so wished they lived closer, but they make it up here every chance they get.

Nolan, you continue to change and amaze Daddy and Mommy everyday. Not that I want it to fly by, but I so look forward to the changes we'll see in you this coming month. At the rate you discover and learn, I wouldn't be surprised if you were belting out your ABC's when you wake up from nap time soon. ;)

I Lead A Rough Life

2011-01-13T22:54:00.004-06:00

Because I have absolutely nothing else to blog about...

Can you blame me, though? ;)

You're Growing Everyday

2011-01-10T11:31:00.003-06:00

Stop it! And yet, I love watching you change and discover something new everyday. Even when I'm mega exhausted I love waking up every morning to see your face. Each day brings something new, and I thank my lucky stars I get to spend this time with you. I love you so stinking much, Nolan!

New Year, New Hair

2011-01-06T20:49:00.003-06:00

My hair was in need of some major TLC so I thought I'd ring in the new year with a new 'do. I'm loving it! My problem is I'm too lazy to go in every four to six weeks (my hair grows SUPER fast!) to get it trimmed up, so my hairstyles come and go quickly.

Before...

After...

What do ya think?

Ringing In The New Year

2011-01-05T14:13:00.000-06:00

We spent the weekend ringing in the New Year in Austin, celebrating my bff's wedding. Congrats to Dez & Derek! You two are definitely soul mates. Friday was the rehearsal and dinner; Saturday was spent primping all day with the bride and bridesmaids before the big event. Aaron and I were able to catch up with friends from near and far, old and new. My parents were there, too, and in complete heaven since they had the privilege of keeping Nolan most of the weekend. He even got to spend the night in their hotel room both nights! I was away from my baby practically all day Saturday...that was rough! Although I missed him very much, I knew Nolan was in completely capable and loving hands which made the time away from him much easier on Mommy and Daddy. A few pics from our weekend...

Derek's (the groom) half of the bridal party ecstatic after receiving their bling. Pimp Cups, of course.

This was just after the ceremony; finally getting to see my prince charmings after not being with them all day!
the new Mr. & Mrs.

the other love of my life, Dez

the whole gang, Gamma Phi Betas

Checking In

2010-12-30T11:15:00.003-06:00

These past few months have been a total whirlwind, and these past two weeks were no exception. Between rushing around for last minute Christmas shopping, cleaning the house and hosting family from out of state for almost a week, I haven't had a second to breathe! We have been go go go, pretty much home just long enough to crash in bed. It was hard to say goodbye to family last night and this morning knowing we won't see them for quite a while. The thousands of miles between us and our family in New York is very tough!

I hope you all had a very Merry Christmas! With my bff's wedding in TWO days, I won't be catching up with any of you until 2011. Have a fabulous time ringing in the new year!

Merry Christmas, Lovers

2010-12-24T21:59:00.002-06:00

From my family to you and yours: Have a very Merry Christmas! I hope Santa is extra special to you all this year. Love you!

I think I got the best Christmas gift of them all. ;)

Just Call Me Bessie

2010-12-24T00:16:00.003-06:00

Oh, that is SO what you think it is...

I pumped this in less than TWENTY MINUTES, in ONE sitting! Is Blue Bell hiring? Mooooooo.

Our One-Month-Old

2010-12-19T17:04:00.003-06:00

I never get tired of looking at him!

Nolan turned one month last Thursday, 12/16/10. He seems to be growing by leaps and bounds. I commented just this morning how I swear he looks bigger from only yesterday! Let's see what this month has brought us...

We think you weigh between 7 and 8 pounds now. Daddy weighs himself than weighs himself with you. You are definitely longer than the 20.5 inches you were at two weeks.
You drink breast milk like a champ. An Olympic gold medalist champ. You heart the stuff ALL.THE.TIME. Mommy has decided she enjoys pumping more than feeding you from the boobie because it takes less time to feed you from the bottle.
Mommy has no shortage of breast milk. I can pump 4-6oz in one sitting, 8 or more ounces if I've waited too long to pump. I make several large bottles a day for you, and usually freeze at least one 5oz bag for future use. Mommy is the envy of dairy farms everywhere.
You are strong. You love to kick, grab fingers, lift and move your head. When having tummy time, you scoot quite far before tiring.
You are much more alert after feedings now. You love play time. You have started to smile and coo while playing 'peek a boo.' You stare at your toys longer and even grabbed hold of one and lifted it yesterday!
One of your favorite things is definitely bath time. You also love rocking and laying on our chests, any kind of music, dancing and talking. I swear you tell me "I love Mommy" all the time. ;)
One thing that is really driving Mommy crazy? You spit up. ALL.THE.TIME. It doesn't bother you at all; you actually smile most of the time after spitting up. But we go through several outfit changes before leaving the house (you AND Mommy), and we're constantly mopping up behind you. As long as it doesn't bother you, than I guess it's just something I'll have to get use to until you grow out of?

Nolan, you are one amazing little boy. Mommy and Daddy love you more and more every second of every day.

Fill in the Blank Friday

2010-12-17T11:29:00.003-06:00

And it's actually Friday; and it's not another post about Nolan!

1. Giving is so fun for me. I feel like I have a knack for finding/putting together the perfect gift when I really put some effort into it. I love giving gifts to others knowing it's something they'll really love; watching that smile on their face is priceless.

2. Receiving is fun, but not as much for me. Of course I love getting gifts, who doesn't? But opening gifts in front of others makes me kind of uncomfortable. I don't get super emotional, so when someone is staring at me expecting me to get so excited as I open their gift--kind of stressful. Weird? But sending me a gift in the mail is wonderful. Hint hint. ;)

3. The best gift I ever received was a new bedroom. My parents closed off my bedroom and my sister's for several months (we had to live in other parts of the house!), and we weren't allowed to peek. Together with my grandfather, they put their head's together and expanded our bedrooms and adjoining bathroom. My grandfather did the construction. We got new flooring, paint, beds and decor. Loved it!

4. The best gift I ever gave was two Christmas's ago, Aaron and I gave my parents framed photos of the chapel where they were married. Back story...my dad's sister had drawn them a picture long ago of that same chapel and Mom naturally had a framed photo of them on their wedding day next to the drawn picture. For Thanksgiving that year, Aaron and I had gone to upstate New York to visit family. I had my grandmother take us to that same private estate chapel. It's gated and locked. Aaron and I snuck in and had our photos taken in front of the chapel in the snow. My parents were going through some rough times with other family members (my entire family is a bit psychotic), so when my Mom opened that gift it brought tears to her eyes knowing how much we cared for her and thought of her.

5. Something intangible I wish I could receive is unconditional love and no deceit from the members of our family that are hell bent on ripping this family apart.

6. Something intangible I wish I could give is peace for my mother. Her heart has been broken.

7. The one gift I always wanted as a child, but never got was my own phone line in my room. I was a total brat and didn't want to have to share phone time with everyone else. Having a phone in my room just wasn't enough. =)

Christmas Came Early This Year

2010-12-15T22:40:00.010-06:00

From Santa

2010-12-14T22:06:00.002-06:00

My parents went to great lengths to ensure my sister and I believed in Santa Claus for as long as possible. Mom would bake cookies with us and help us in writing Santa a letter, leaving both with a glass of milk near the fire place. Dad would actually go on the roof above our bedrooms and make thumping noises while mom was up in the middle of the night wrapping presents. He'd also make powdered sugar "Santa" footprints with his boots from the fireplace to each of our bedrooms. Oh yeah, we believed in Santa for quite a long time.

I'm remembering all this since I caved and went a bit overboard on buying my (soon to be) one month old son Christmas presents. I mean, he doesn't even know what his hands are for, for goodness sakes! I couldn't help myself today, though. I love the holidays and picking out just the right gift. As I started wrapping his gifts today, I couldn't help become completely giddy when I realized it was my turn to pass on the tradition of Santa. I actually get to sign a gift "From Santa!" It may irk me just a little that he gets all the credit while Mommy & Daddy are paying the bill, but it's the thought that counts. ;) Next year, Aaron and I will really get to play up the role of Santa since Nolan might actually understand what Christmas is by then. I can't wait to pass such warm traditions on to my son, and watch his face light up as he "hears" Santa or sees Christmas morning that Santa ate all his cookies and took the time to respond to his letter.

What lengths have you gone to ensure your children still believe in Santa?

Webster's New Definition of Cute:

2010-12-08T22:07:00.002-06:00

What I've Learned Thus Far

2010-12-07T15:39:00.002-06:00

Three weeks into Mommyhood I've come to learn my life has flipped upside down, for the better, but nonetheless it's changed completely. As I sit here wondering if I'll even be able to complete this post (feeding time is coming soon), I want you all to know I truly miss you. I miss stalking your blogs and being a teeny part of your lives. To let you in on the newest chapter of my life, here's what I've learned in the past three weeks:

Being a Mommy is hard. Really hard. No book/website/words of wisdom can truly prepare you for what's to come.
You learn as you go. Screw the books. Nolan, Daddy and I make our own rules, according to what makes Nolan happiest, of course.
Call me Bessie because I've turned into a dairy farm. I am so proud I am able to breastfeed my son well, but seriously child, you eat every hour to two hours. And you wonder why I haven't been blogging? Speaking of which....feeding time. This post will have to wait...Mooo
A good tough swaddle is my new BFF.
I respect my Mom so SO much more. I pretty much want to gravel at her feet. After knowing what I know now, how could any child ever turn their back on their mother?
It's okay to ask for help! Something I have to continually tell myself everyday.
Don't bother getting anywhere on time. Schedules and prior commitments need to be thrown out the window. We're on Nolan time now. Whatever he "says," goes.
Slow down and breathe. There is no point in rushing anything. Rushing makes baby upset, which makes Mommy upset.
Better to catch pee in the hand than in the face, I say!
A loud belch, wet fart or yellowish poo are all signs I am doing a good job.
Focus on baby and nothing else. Trying to do too much too fast will only make you frustrated, exhausted and sick. Lesson learned...I spent the last several days feeling like death and having a newborn that needs my attention 24/7.
Give your husband and baby space. Let them have Daddy and son time without you.
My heart breaks when you cry; My heart beams when I can figure out why you're crying and calm you in less than a minute and a half. Oh, I've timed myself.
I am not a bad Mommy just because you sleep in your crib, already take a pacifier and sometimes drink boob milk from a bottle.
I can stare at you all day long. I love every inch of your body, facial expression, hand motion, fart, cry, dirty diaper, smile and little changes I can see in you everyday.

You are my whole world, Nolan. Mommy loves you!

I started this post at 3:40pm today. It's now 9:20pm. Oi vay.

Giddy

2010-12-03T09:24:00.002-06:00

I'm still behind on my blogging (obviously), but swear I'll catch up soon! Anywho...who else is jumping out of their skin that Eclipse is released TOMORROW??!! I totally am..Duh. Not that I'll be able to sit down and watch it in a whole sitting, but still, I'm excited. It took me three days to watch the latest episode of '16 and Pregnant' (you know I've got to get my trashy tv on!). I can only sit down long enough to feed Nolan, then it's off to change his diaper, clean house, entertain him, bathe him, etc. Being a Mommy is tough work--and I love every freaking second of it!!! Since I'm behind on my blogging, I'll leave you with a little something that will hopefully put me in your good graces...

A Birth Story, in Photos

2010-11-29T17:21:00.004-06:00

The morning of Nolan's delivery, 11.16.10

Last belly bump pic, 39 weeks 5 days

Nolan's future Pops and Jammy

Texting and facebooking right before wheeling me in. They wouldn't let me take my Blackberry into surgery. I asked.

Nolan's proud Daddy scrubbing up before meeting Mommy in surgery

The moment I met my son for the first time. LOVE times a billion. Yes, they are still sewing me up...sorry if it's too graphic!

Skin to skin with Nolan that prevented him from visiting NICU

Nolan's Jammy & Nana

I love watching Aaron hold his son. Brings tears to my eyes.

Ready to bust out of this joint and go home! Thanks to Marian @ Escaping the Single Life, Nolan's outfit matched his carseat. =) The day we left the hospital, 11.18.10

A Birth Story

2010-11-28T21:35:00.004-06:00

Thank you all for sticking around; I promise it was worth it! Ready for an uber-long post?

Our son, Nolan Harper, was born November 16, 2010, at 9am. He weighed in at 6lb 3oz, 19.5 inches long. From head to toe, he is perfect and amazing! Aaron and I were blessed with the most beautiful baby, and he steals our love more and more every second. At the current moment, he's laying on his mommy's chest, tucked safely in his Moby, with his head on his hands dreaming and "talking" in his sleep. How did we arrive at this moment? Let me take you back almost two weeks ago when our lives were changed forever.

The morning of November 16th found me in a range of emotions: a bit frantic, a little nervous, a wee bit scared, a lot of excitement and total awe. I can't believe this day had finally arrived after what seemed like 100 years. We actually arrived at the hospital 30 minutes early (me--EARLY??! I know, I can hardly believe it myself ;). I was so glad to have not only my husband, but my mother and father in the room while they began prepping and asking basic questions. My husband and parents are my rock, sense of calm and total amusement. After a short time, they were wheeling me back to the surgery room way earlier than expected. It was all happening so fast! Was I ready for this? Too late for that...Aaron wasn't allowed in the room while they gave me my epidural. That's when my nerves kicked in. I didn't like that he couldn't be in there to hold my hand. I wasn't in labor so had no pain to compare to or take the edge off when they gave me the epidural--OUCH! That hurt big time. I actually got sick everywhere after the anaesthesiologist removed the needle. Thank god for super sweet, patient nurses! Following that quick episode, though, it was all downhill from there. I couldn't even move myself from a sitting position to lying back on the operating table. I felt nothing. Aaron was quickly ushered in and promptly started giving me encouragement, rubbing my head and holding my hand. Literally about a minute later, if that, I hear the nurse saying things like "what a scrotum" "beautiful," and all I can remember thinking is, "how rude to be discussing another birth while trying to deliver my baby!" I asked Aaron what was going on, and just like Aaron, all non-chalantly he replies, "Nolan's already born." I could not believe it. I did not even realize they had begun the surgery! Thank god for good drugs!! Another few seconds go by and I hear the sweet screams of a newborn, MY newborn! That's when my water works started. Aaron was not allowed to cut the umbilical cord, but was allowed to go over and see him being weighed, cleaned and checked over. He wrapped our baby up and brought him over to meet me while they sewed me back up...seriously felt nothing! After I was good to go, I was able to hold Nolan as they wheeled me back to our recovery room...only 45 minutes after they had wheeled me out of it! I could not believe how fast it all happened. The recovery room was filled with a lot more people than when I left it, all so happy to see Mommy and Nolan.

Because he was a c-section baby, Nolan made a little grunting noise with every breath; not all of his fluid was able to squeeze out since he didn't travel through the birth canal. The nurse mentioned NICU, which sent my heart rate soaring for a moment, but then she suggested laying him skin to skin on my chest. Within seconds his grunting disappeared and NICU was never mentioned again. After 30 minutes of that, we tried breastfeeding. Nolan latched on immediately and had his first feeding outside the womb. After that we were able to move to our post partum room, where Daddy, Mommy and Nolan would remain for 2 1/2 days. That day, while Mommy was in a serious fog, Nolan would meet about 25-30 of his biggest fans. Even though I don't remember most of the conversations I had that day, I know how blessed I was to have my amazing family and friends by my side. With such an event, I have really come to know who my true family and friends are. Thank you so much for all the love!

The next couple of days were a whirlwind, followed by almost two weeks of the most incredible learning curve ever experienced. How can I describe parenthood? Beautiful, exciting, hard, frustrating at times, ever changing, emotional. In the twelve days since Nolan graced us with his presence, I have come to know love in a whole different way and couldn't be happier.

I give credit to those new Mommy's who can give birth and jump right back to blogging. I just couldn't. After getting home from the hospital, I was in some pain from the c-section and when my milk came in a day later, became seriously engorged (I'll tell that saga in another post). Aaron and I were both exhausted from long nights and figuring out a new routine that seemed ever changing. I can't say enough how lucky I was to have my mom here the whole time. I cried like a baby when I finally had to say goodbye to her yesterday evening. I miss her so much! But, Aaron and I are beginning to find our groove and have gotten some pretty good rest the last few nights. We even had Nolan's first photo shoot yesterday and things actually went pretty smoothly! Can't wait to see how those photos turned out. He truly is one beautiful baby boy.

That's the story of Nolan in a nutshell, although there's a million more things I'd love to share. More posts to come! And my next post will be all photos of the day he was born, but for now here's a little something to leave you with...

Still Here

2010-11-21T19:58:00.002-06:00

Don't give up on me yet! Yes, I gave birth to a beautiful healthy baby boy last Tuesday and I've been MIA ever since, but I'm not gone forever. It has been a long, hectic week with a rough last couple of days. I will get back to blogging soon and promise to share Nolan Harper with my bloggy friends soon. We met with a professional lactation consultant tonight, and Nolan seems to finally have that milk comatose I've heard so much about. I feel so much more confident now and can see a better schedule and a few hours of sleep at a time in my near future. I promise to get back to blogging soon, not only to share my beautiful baby boy with all of you but to catch up on all my favorite bloggers, as well. I'm also not able to share photos at this time because my camera broke (or was broken...my dad accidentally dropped it) the day of Nolan's delivery. Aaron was able to snap some great photos beforehand, though. As soon as I get a bit more rest for the giant bags under my eyes, I'll share with all of you the day Nolan was born. Please stay tuned...I promise to be back soon!

D-Day

2010-11-16T06:34:00.003-06:00

I feel like I've waited for this day my whole life. I can't wait to be Nolan's Mommy! Thanks to everyone for all the love along our journey...stay tuned for more. I am so excited to get to introduce my son to you all...soon!

Since I'll most likely be MIA, be sure to check for Nolan updates at my bff's blog: Dezzy Lou.

Calm Before the Storm

2010-11-15T21:41:00.002-06:00

The day has finally arrived, well tomorrow. My nerves have started to kick in and I panicked for about 30 minutes last night. Had a good cry for absolutely no reason--my husband really started to worry--before falling asleep. Right now I'm more in panic mode...did I pack everything needed; where the hell is my insurance card (seriously can't find it!); must have house spotless and all laundry done. I'm sure after my OCD moment passes the nerves will return and there will be no sleep had by me tonight.

There are no words to express the excitement I'm also feeling. Nolan will actually arrive earlier than expected--the c-section was pushed up to 10:30am. The moment where we will finally get to meet our son is drawing nearer and nearer. I want nothing more than that moment to already be here, but I guess a few more hours won't kill me.

I'll try to keep everyone posted, but will probably be MIA for a few days. Wish me luck!

Belly Progress, 39 Weeks

2010-11-11T20:25:00.003-06:00

I'm just classy like that.

I've gained 28-30 pounds (it fluctuates). Gasp, I know, but it's all for the good of the Little Guy...or that's the mantra I tell myself everyday.

The Countdown Begins

2010-11-11T09:40:00.002-06:00

I am 39 weeks pregnant today. I'll post belly bump pictures this evening...Scouts Honor! Instead of reaching the full 40 weeks, Aaron and I get to meet our Little Man in just FIVE DAYS. My nerves haven't kicked in, so freak out mode hasn't occurred...yet. I am still in awe and feel utter excitement that the day I get to meet and hold my son is literally right around the corner. I'm wondering if I'll do nothing but stare into his little eyes or start off by telling him the million things I know I want to say to him; if he'll right off the bat recognize my voice and his daddy's; how pissed he'll be that he's being taken out of his comfy sleeping spot and getting circumcised all in the same day...Sorry Nolan! Mostly I can't wait to see Nolan in his daddy's arms. Listening to Aaron talk about his son and seeing the way he has gotten so involved in this pregnancy, always wanting to know how I'm feeling about this or that, has solidified my feeling that Aaron is going to make one hell of a daddy to our little boy. FIVE DAYS. Holy moly. Tuesday, November 16, we'll arrive at the hospital by 10am to start prepping, and the surgery will begin at noon. I'm hoping by 1pm I'll have Nolan in my arms.

Today starts another countdown, which if I'm being honest I actually started quite a while ago. Starting tomorrow at 4 (or 3ish.. ;), I am trading in my suits and bad attitude for the life of a real 'A Real Housewife.' Yes, I'm a bit petrified to turn in my paychecks and the ability to shop with reckless abandon, but what I'm getting in return is so worth it to Aaron and me. So beginning tomorrow afternoon, I'm starting a whole new chapter in my life. CAN.NOT.WAIT!!

Due Date

2010-11-06T22:33:00.003-05:00

Aaron and I are having fun filling our final days before the arrival of our son, Nolan Harper. God it is so weird...and EXCITING (!!!)...to say that. Today we got in some shopping, hit up a new restaurant in town and caught this new movie...

Eh, I wasn't impressed after all the hype. I heart Robert and Zach, and naturally after watching all the trailers thought this was going to be over the top hilarious. Nah, not so much. There are some really funny parts that had me in laughing fits, but it didn't live up to my expectations. I could have done with waiting for this to come out on Netflix. What did you think of Due Date?

Life Just Can't Be Planned

2010-11-04T13:44:00.002-05:00

I'm 38 weeks today! We have exactly 12 days until we're meeting Nolan Harper. Want to know how I know that? I can even tell you we'll be welcoming his shiny face into this world at noon on November 16th...

We had our latest check up yesterday, which included a sonogram. Our doctor's appointment went well, and not so well. The sonogram showed he's healthy and has a cute nose and chubby cheeks. Nolan is weighing only 5 lbs 14 oz, but he's proportionate with the rest of his body. And as every sonogram tech has announced so far, Nolan is "all boy!" He's very proud of his manhood. Oh goodness...The sonogram tech went on showing his strong heartbeat, breathing patterns, etc. As she got to my bladder, she says, "well he's sitting on your bladder and his head is at your ribs." Wait, WHAT? You mean the other way around, right? Nope, she didn't. Nolan is breeched.

My OB isn't concerned with his weight, saying he's always measured a little small. The breech part is the issue. At this point there's really no turning him since there isn't much room in there for him to move. Trying to turn him could result in several things other than working: extremely painful, not effective, or an emergency c-section. So, we've scheduled our c-section, and Nolan is due to arrive Tuesday, November 16 @ noon!

I am a little sad, but also very very grateful. He's healthy and this isn't turning into an emergency situation. Our doctor is able to plan ahead for a smooth delivery. I shed some tears yesterday for a bit because we had his D-day imagined going a certain way, and now it turns out everything will be different. But, I'm over that now and just super excited that I know when he'll be here! We do go for another appointment and sonogram next Tuesday. If something is wrong, my OB will do the c-section next Wednesday. Otherwise, Nolan Harper will be in my arms 11/16/10!!!

For Sh*ts and Giggles

2010-11-03T11:16:00.002-05:00

Saw this bumper sticker on my way home from work yesterday. Best. EVER.

Happy Halloweenie!!

2010-11-01T17:16:00.003-05:00

Yes, I realize Halloween was yesterday. But you all know I'll be late to my own funeral. Here's how I decorated this Hallow's Eve...

sadly the Rangers pumpkin didn't help us pull out a win last night

Now on to Thanksgiving...I love this time of year!

I don't go all out in my decorating, but I'll definitely add more before Thanksgiving gets here. How do you decorate?

Italian Sausage Soup with Tortellini

2010-10-30T11:32:00.002-05:00

This recipe is a must for fall. From start to finish it takes about an hour and a half to prepare, but it is so worth it. I snagged this recipe from the lovely Erin @ C'est La Vie and she said I could share it with you. I cooked the Italian Sausage Soup with Tortellini last night for the first time--it was an instant success! Makes your kitchen smell delicious, too.

Ingredients:
1 lb sweet or hot Italian sausage, casings removed
1 C chopped onion
2 cloves garlic, minced
6 C beef broth
1/2 C water
1/2 C red wine
1 can (14.5 oz) diced tomatoes, don't drain
1 C thinly sliced carrots
1/2 Tbs packed fresh basil leaves
1/2 tsp dried oregano
1 can (8 oz) tomato sauce
1 1/2 C sliced zucchini
8 oz tortellini pasta
3 Tbs chopped fresh parsley
Parmesan cheese (optional)

1. In a 5 quart or larger dutch oven, brown sausage. Remove sausage and drain, reserving 1 Tbs of the drippings.
2. Saute onions and garlic in drippings. Stir in beef broth, water, wine, tomatoes, carrots, basil, oregano, tomato sauce and sausage. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat; simmer uncovered for 3o minutes.
3. Skim fat from soup (I didn't have any). Stir in zucchini and parsley. Simmer covered for 30 minutes, adding tortellini during the last 10-15 minutes.
4. Sprinkle each serving with Parmesan cheese. (we left this out)

Makes 6-8 servings.

Enjoy!

And the Winner Is...

2010-10-26T19:27:00.003-05:00

The winner of the $45 CSN gift card giveaway is...

Megan @ Fried Green Pickles!

Congrats, Megan, and thanks for being a new follower! I have emailed CSN your email address. You should hear from them shortly. Enjoy your gift card! You'll have to tell us all what you purchase with it.

Belly Progress, 36 weeks

2010-10-25T12:08:00.004-05:00

Classy, no?

I hit the 36 week mark last Thursday, but wanted to wait to post this until we had our doctor's appointment this morning. So actually, I'm almost 37 weeks...holy moly.

I have gained 23 pounds to date. I am really starting to feel the weight of my stomach (boobs, thighs, and ass....!).
Sleeping is still a hit or miss, but seems like in the last 5 days sleep has been much better. Let's hope it stays this way until he arrives.
We're finally as ready as we can be for Nolan's arrival. His nursery is completely done; stroller is put together; car seat bases installed in both of our vehicles; breast pump purchased and waiting to be put to use; his bouncer seat and swing are assembled. All that's really left is actually packing for the hospital. I cannot wait to start using my diaper bag!
Our check up this morning told us that he's measuring about 5 pounds now. The doctor said I've always measured a little small, but no cause for concern. She couldn't determine how low he's sitting so I'll have a sonogram before next week's appointment.
The doctor could tell that my cervix was completely closed. Looks like Nolan won't be arriving any time soon. Damn it. I should have seen this coming, though. My mom carried me four weeks past her due date and my sister two weeks past. Aaron was also two weeks late from his due date. No idea if that's hereditary, but it's not looking promising.
I am to the point where I'm tired of being pregnant. I love being pregnant and have had a fairly easy pregnancy, and am beyond grateful that fertility treatments worked for us, but it's time to meet our Little Man.

Our faithful guinea pigs.

Don't forget--Today is the last day to enter in the $45 gift card giveaway!!

Fill in the Blank Friday...on Saturday (again)

2010-10-23T08:26:00.003-05:00

'A day late and a dollar short' should be my middle name. I was really busy at work yesterday, and last night we spent the evening glued to the Rangers/Yankees game...GO RANGERS!!! This week's Fill In the Blank Friday leaves lots of room for imagination.

1. I am excited, nervous, anxious, ready; independent, goofy, stubborn; ready for the big changes that are coming our way; confused at times, but know I'll always find my way.

2. I wish my whole family would get over themselves, their issues, and just get along. Life is too short.

3. I like seeing my husband walk through the door after a long day of work with a smile on his face. Melts my heart.

4. I can go for breakfast in bed right now. Anyone? I'll have buttermilk pancakes, bacon and two eggs over easy. Mmmkay? Thanks.

5. I hope my son is born healthy; he's happy and knows how much he will always be loved; he knows how proud he will always make his father and me no matter what or who he chooses in life.

6. I think the Texas Rangers are going to take it all and win the World Series! You should have seen the look on my husband's face last night when they won the ALCS.

7. I was going to get up and clean this morning, but think I'll just lounge in bed for a while. I do have a Vampire Diaries waiting for me on dvr...

Pasta Fail

2010-10-20T13:54:00.002-05:00

It's fall...well, no not here in Texas actually, but everywhere else the season has arrived. Since we're still experiencing high 80 degree weather, air conditioning on full blast and watering our lawns every day, I have to trick myself into thinking fall has come to Texas. We have put the Halloween decorations out, bought pumpkins for the front porch and I've been burning my Scentsy Autumn Sunset and Pumpkin Roll bars non stop.

Last night I thought I'd try a new recipe to bring the feeling of fall to our home. This Saturday is my monthly get together with my sorority girlfriends--pot luck at my place. I volunteered the dish of Pasta in a Creamy Pumpkin Sauce. This is a new recipe, but who doesn't love pumpkin anything? I had to try the recipe out last night using my husband and myself as guinea pigs. Fail. Major fail. Kraft recipes usually do no wrong, but this was a major strikeout (the MLB playoffs have been playing non stop in my house). I love all the ingredients in this dish, but when mixed together? Yuck. The sauce looked like a melted marshmallow of sorts. It was creamy(ish), but somehow still tasted dry to me. I even added more milk to the sauce! If you do try this recipe, let me know what you think. I'm curious if somehow I did something wrong while cooking.

So I'm back to square one. I need a yummy pasta recipe for this Saturday's pot luck. Any suggestions?

Gift Card Giveaway

2010-10-19T10:00:00.005-05:00

Who doesn't love free goodies?! CSN and A Real Housewife would like to award the winning blogger with a $45 gift card (!!!) to use towards a snazzy bar stool or any of their thousands of products from one of over 200 CSN online stores! How cool is that?

So, who's interested in winning a cool $45 towards the product of their choosing?! Here's how to enter in this giveaway:

(1) You must be a follower of my blog to enter (list this in your comment)...worth 1 entry

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FOUR chances to enter for a $45 gift card to CSN! Entrance to this giveaway will end Monday, October 25th. I'll choose the winner using Random.org and announce the winner on Tuesday, October 26th. GOOD LUCK, Lovelies!!

Come Back Tomorrow

2010-10-18T21:29:00.001-05:00

Check back tomorrow for a sweet little giveaway! Hope you all had a lovely weekend.

Be Jealous.

2010-10-14T10:55:00.003-05:00

Bet you didn't know I was carrying around the next Edward Cullen, did you? ;)

Aaron, however, insists that we are not soon giving birth to anything that "sparkles or talks in a stupid British vampire accent (??)."

We received these gems in the mail yesterday from my aunt!

Nolan's Nursery

2010-10-12T11:30:00.002-05:00

Nolan's nursery is complete(ish). I find myself not 100% satisfied so I know I'll add/take away as the days go on. But this is my first ever nursery and we're working with a small space, so I don't think his room turned out too shabby for the time being.

Any suggestions? I switch back and forth every day between adding a long curtain rod along the ceiling on the wall with the tree and draping curtains on either side of the tree. Does that make sense to anyone else besides me? I'll also eventually add something above the crib, but haven't found just what that is yet and don't want to make any rash decisions.

Fill in the Blank...Saturday

2010-10-09T17:01:00.003-05:00

I recently started following Lauren @ the little things we do..., and am really enjoying her Fill in the Blank Friday posts. Naturally I'm a day late, but here goes...

1. The first thing I do in the morning to start my day is turn off my alarm (usually three times) before getting up and getting in the shower. I also must rub Maverick's belly before he gives in to getting out of bed. True story.

2. Today I wish I was doing nothing more than I've done today. It's been great. Aaron and I ran a few errands this morning; had a lunch date with my friend Tiffany and caught 'Social Network' (good movie) @ the movie tavern; then hit up the yogurt shop and did some shopping at Target; now I'm lying on the couch blogging and watching the Rangers (hopefully) sweep the Rays.

3. If I had an extra $100 in my bank account today I'd probably have spent more than necessary at Target.

4. Tomorrow I will take photos of Nolan's FINISHED nursery and post them. Can't wait!

5. Two things that don't go together are my ass and sitting lately. Sciatic nerve is painful and the spider veins are creepin'.

6. Something I can never pass up at the grocery store is the fresh, warm complimentary tortillas at HEB. Yum.

7. The last time I tried something new was last night and today. We went to a Greek festival last night and tried several foods I'd never had. Not a fan of the grape leaves, but really enjoyed the Baklava (and so fun to say!). Today I tried the pistachio yogurt at Yogurtland. Yuck.

All I Want for Christmas Is

2010-10-06T11:50:00.003-05:00

I promise I've been a good(ish) girl this year, Santa.

The Bump

2010-10-05T11:12:00.004-05:00

Aaron and I had Jennifer Matlock come out to the house Sunday for a maternity photo shoot @ 33 1/2 weeks along. She took most of our photos in our backyard, then we went to the railroad tracks near our home for some additional shots. Jennifer did a beautiful job. Here are some of my favorites...

Belly Progress, 33 weeks

2010-10-01T09:14:00.002-05:00

Um, so is time flying for anyone else? SEVEN weeks left. It seems like just yesterday we were staring at a tiny (or large depending on which of Nolan's parents you ask ;) penis on a monitor confirming you were a boy.

To date, I have gained 19.5 pounds
Nolan moves around all the time, and I.LOVE.IT. He's fickle, though. He only loves to perform for Mommy or Daddy's touch, and suddenly gets very still when anyone else is rubbing my stomach (that totally makes me sound like Buddha).
I sleep very little (see above), plus I get up to pee 2 - 5 times a night. No joke. He's clearly sitting right on my bladder. I have never been a great sleeper, but add 8 months pregnant to that and you've got insomnia. I'm sure the bags under my eyes contribute about 5 pounds to that 19.5
I finally broke down and bought nursing bras, which almost turned to a breakdown in the dressing room. I have gone from a full C to an E. Yes, an E, and my milk has not even come in yet! I hear G's are possible in my near future. I'll need a crane to lift these things off the floor.
The spider veins on my ass have multiplied. Want proof? Ask Dez. Not a pretty sight. It looks like something has clawed at my ass. Oooh, maybe a hot werewolf perhaps? Yes, let's go with that theory.
Nolan's nursery is so so close to being complete. I came up with a new idea for one wall yesterday and will start on that tonight. Pictures will be posted as soon as it's complete. Promise!
We have one more baby shower on October 14th. Nolan is one loved little boy! Now we just have to figure out where to put everything...
This Sunday we're having a photographer come out to the house for maternity photos. A little stressed since I haven't figured out what either of us are wearing yet, but I'll get it together by then. We're also including the boys (dogs) in some photos. Normal, no? =)

Am I leaving any important information out?

Greatness

2010-09-30T13:55:00.002-05:00

Why I heart Justin Timberlake and Jimmy Fallon:

A History of Rap

ps....Does anyone know how to imbed a video into a blogger post? Sometimes it works for me and sometimes it doesn't. What is the sure fire way to make sure it works every time?

More Showering for Nolan

2010-09-28T20:49:00.004-05:00

And literally this time! It seriously flooded bloody murder here on Saturday, but that didn't stop the ladies from coming out to celebrate our future bundle of joy. I had such a wonderful time this weekend. I'll let the pictures do the talking (frankly because I'm exhausted!)...

Gamma Phi Beta sisters

I'm a Single Woman

2010-09-23T11:08:00.002-05:00

It's finally happened. My fingers have turned to sausages. Since I only have EIGHT WEEKS left as of today, I thought perhaps I might have been able to skip this part of pregnancy all together. I thought wrong. This morning as I was getting ready for work I discovered my wedding ring would not fit. Granted, this isn't hard to accomplish since my ring finger is a size 4 3/4 so any fluctuation will cause this problem, but it's never happened before. I've never not worn my ring and I truly feel naked without it. Yes yes, I know: "The ring doesn't symbolize his love for you, it's just a token." Blah blah blah. But let's face it. I happen to looooove my ring. The hubs did a good job. I am not ashamed to admit that I'm a Material Girl living in a Material World. Plus, I'm 8 months pregnant. Not a good combination. I can already feel the stares, or at least I'm imagining them. Don't deny that you don't look at a woman's ring finger when you see she's pregnant. I totally do.

My husband's response when I told him I'm officially single? "Does this mean I'm free?" Buahahahah. Never. ;)

Bloggy Love for Nolan

2010-09-22T11:20:00.003-05:00

My bff from the blogging world, Marian @ Escaping the Single Life, wanted to show some love for Nolan. She sent the sweetest package for him last week! It's been so great getting to know complete strangers through blogging, but every now and then you come across someone you just click with. Marian and I have discovered we have so many things in common and have a good time writing back and forth. I was so deeply grateful when I received these presents for Nolan from her last week....

He is going to look super adorable and be so comfy in these! Thanks again, Marian...aka "Sistah from anotha Mistah."

Done and Done

2010-09-20T16:17:00.004-05:00

All pieces of furniture have officially been purchased for Nolan's nursery. Finally! I was starting to feel a little behind. We only have nine and a half weeks left. The rocking chair will arrive next week and the storage/sitting bench should arrive by the end of this week/early next week. I'm still lacking for his walls, though. And I still need to finish cleaning out his closet that currently houses half of my clothes and all my shoes. Okay, yikes....I'm feeling way behind again. Anyways, here's a little peek of what's to come:

I needed bookshelves for his room, so instead of buying a traditional bookshelf, I went with this. This way, he'll have a piece that grows with him and something he can climb on/sit on to read/be in time out on/color all over with markers...=) Instead of using the baskets, I'll use those cubbies as bookshelves. Once we have all his room together, I'll post pics of the completed nursery.

Product Review with CSN

2010-09-17T15:35:00.003-05:00

CSN stores has contacted me to do another produt review. I'm loving this outdoor coffee table, but unfortunately won't get to review this patio set. CSN has over 200 online stores where you can find just about anything.

Thanks, CSN! Can't wait to choose which product I will get to review.

Showered with Love

2010-09-15T10:16:00.003-05:00

This past weekend was spent in my hometown where my mom was hosting the first baby shower to celebrate Nolan's upcoming arrival. I had such a great time celebrating with close family and friends that have always meant so much to me. Nolan is one lucky little boy and is already quite spoiled!

Nolan's Grandma, Mommy & Aunt Kimmie

Nolan being active for his Aunt

Aunt Kimmie works at the snazzy Eye Couture and is giving Nolan his first pair of RAY BANS!! He already has more expensive sunglasses than Mommy!

We ended the weekend with meeting our cousin's daughter, Mia, for the first time. Truly adorable and got the perfect pairing of her parent's features. From the nose up, she looks like Daddy and from the cheeks down she looks like Mommy. Too stinking cute!

Hellloooo Uncle Mason

2010-09-14T09:53:00.005-05:00

Have you watched the season premiere of Vampire Diaries yet? No? We can't be friends. ;) If you haven't tuned in yet, you'll want to and asap. The show introduced a new character this season.....cue Uncle Mason.

Whenever you stop drooling, we may continue....

So, Uncle Mason, aka Taylor Kinney, shows up as Tyler's uncle. Tyler's very hot, young looking uncle. Tyler (pictured on the right) obviously has rage issues and now after his dad's mysterious death, Uncle Mason comes to town as Tyler's mentor. I said from the VERY beginning (if you don't believe me ask my irl friend, Dez) that Tyler was a werewolf and after this season's premiere I was totally convinced. Then, in my search for all things Uncle Mason, I came across this article from zap2it.com. I knew it!! Even if I didn't love this show, which I totally do, I would watch it just for Uncle Mason....and Stefan...and Damon... ;)

Belly Progress, 30 weeks...and a New 'Do

2010-09-10T13:56:00.002-05:00

We have TEN weeks left, people. TEN WEEKS!! Can you believe it's gone by this fast? Time seems to have flown by for me so I'm really hoping the next ten weeks don't move at a snail's pace. His nursery may not be ready to greet him just yet, but Daddy and I are so ready to meet our Little Man. I've gotten to the point where I want nothing more than to see Nolan's little face and kiss his little cheeks. I want to dress him up in all the cute (handsome, as my husband insists on saying) little boy clothes we've gotten for him and even see how dirty he can make a diaper. Freak, I know. These next ten weeks will be jam packed while we finish preparing for Nolan, which is a welcomed challenge as it will take my mind off how seriously crazy life is about to change.

This past week has been pretty fun. Last weekend we hosted my sister and her boyfriend for a weekend filled with much needed catching up and endless laughter. Aaron and I attended our first 'prepared childbirth class' Monday night. I laughed throughout the whole class...definitely won't be winning 'Maturest Mother Award.' At least our instructor commented that I should get through birth easier with goofball (Aaron) there to coach me through. Excellent. And yesterday, I chopped all my hair off! Well, about six inches and a color change. I went for my more natural, honey blonde as opposed to 'Girl's Next Door' blonde. This weekend we'll spend back in my hometown with my parents, and my mom is hosting my first baby shower tomorrow.

I hope all you lovelies have a fabulous weekend!

Urine Samples

2010-09-09T09:20:00.002-05:00

No, your eyes do not deceive you. I am definitely discussing giving a urine sample in today's blog post...(you're welcome)

Being pregnant and in the doctor's office every five minutes, I'm quite experienced in the area of giving urine samples. Experienced, but no where near an expert. Seriously, is there a couth way of peeing in a tiny little cup?! No, I am not kidding. I WANT TO KNOW HOW TO PEE IN A CUP PROPERLY. Just about the only thing that hasn't happened while doing this is me dropping the cup on the floor. Thank god for that. I'm sure I am just one more pee in a cup away, though. Ugh. Now that I'm just TEN WEEKS (Eeek!!!) away from meeting my Little Man, I'll be handing over even more urine samples. I desperately want to know how not to get my "sample" everywhere but the kitchen sink when performing this seriously un-ladylike duty. Any advice?

Project Nursery

2010-09-01T21:12:00.003-05:00

This past weekend I worked on a little project for Nolan's nursery. I've been hunting around for cute letters to hang in his room, but never found any I was fully satisfied with. Finally I decided I would try my hand at a bit of Martha Stewart and see what I could create on my own. I've got the least craftiest bone in my body, but I don't think these turned out half bad...

My intention is to frame each letter on the wall with one of these white frames. I was going to hang the frames with ribbon, but Aaron vetoed that idea. His response, "We are having a boy, you know."

Last Friday, Aaron also put the crib together! I've washed all the bedding and put it on the crib. So far, I'm really loving Nolan's nursery! I don't want to post pics until we've finished, and I'm hoping that happens in the next couple of weeks.

8 Questions

2010-08-31T09:44:00.002-05:00

I've been tagged by the fabulous, and my IRL bestie, Dezzy Lou, for a game of 8 Questions. The rules are simple: Answer the 8 questions she created; tag 8 people; come up with 8 new questions.

Here are her eight questions:

1. What TV show is your guiltiest pleasure? Jersey Shore and The Real Housewives of New Jersey. Maybe I'm secretly pining to become a guidette? Both shows are such train wrecks, but I can't stop watching.
2. Team Edward, Team Jacob or Team I don't give a rat's ass? Def Team Edward. Don't you know me at all? Aaron says if our son comes out with sparkles he'll never speak to me again. ;)
3. What is your most unhealthy craving? Oreos and milk without a doubt. Since I pair it with milk, does eating an entire package within a few days make it less unhealthy? Please say yes.
4. What's your favorite knock knock joke? Knock, knock. Who's there? Banana. Banana who? Knock, knock. Who's there? Banana. Banana who? Knock, knock. Who's there? Banana. Banana who? Knock, knock. WHO'S THERE?! Orange. Orange who? Orange you glad I didn't say Banana? I used to giggle so hard as a little girl when my mom would tell this joke.
5. What is your least favorite household chore? Dusting. I feel like no matter how often I dust, there's still dust.
6. What book could you read over and over? Twilight. Cliche, I know, but I love Stephanie Meyer's style of writing and this is such an amazing love story.
7. What's the strangest thing you dip in ranch dressing? Nothing. Seriously I'm not a huge fan other than the occasional broccoli spear or carrot.
8. Favorite male and female celebs? Male: Robert Pattinson (obvs) & Steven Tyler; Female: Julia Roberts & Sandra Bullock.

I tag the following to play this little game:
Escaping the Single Life
C'est La Vie
For the Love of Shoes
California Dreamin
I Love You More Than Carrots
Pearls and Ponytails
The New Black
Peace Love & Applesauce

And now my questions for you:
1. What would you request for your last meal?
2. Who are you closest to in your family and why?
3. Who is your favorite artist and current song?
4. Favorite dessert?
5. What outfit is your 'go-to' outfit that always makes you feel fabulous?
6. What is your least favorite aspect of your current job?
7. When you were a kid, what was your dream job?
8. Do you prefer online shopping or actually going to the store?

Okay....GO!!

Pregnancy Brain

2010-08-30T09:35:00.002-05:00

It finally happened. I had a total case of 'Pregnancy Brain' yesterday. As I was cleaning the house, I started spraying the couch with 'Febreze.' Aaron looked at me really funny and said, "What the hell are you doing?!" I looked down at the bottle in my hand and realized I was spraying the couch with PLEDGE. Our couch is now protected against dust in case it ever turns into glass or wood instead of smelling like a Clean Breeze. Eff.

You're welcome for the shortest post ever. Have you ever done something completely retarded that you could blame on being pregnant?

Belly Progress, 28 weeks

2010-08-27T09:30:00.002-05:00

We're in the home stretch! Yesterday was the start of the third trimester!!

Weight Gain: 16 pounds...mostly in my stomach, but I'm not in denial that my thighs and rear have taken on a bit of meat, as well.
Sleep: I sleep pretty well, mostly thanks to my Snoogle. Seriously a heaven sent. I am getting up at least once in the middle of the night to pee, though.
Cravings: Never happened.
Movement: Nolan is quite the gymnast. He loves to move around just below my belly button after I've eaten lunch, when his big brothers start barking when Dad walks through the door, and really active again when we lay in bed. The last few days, he's had the hiccups often.
Pain: The iron pills seem to have combat the restless leg syndrome I was having every now and then. Major pain is my sciatic nerve, but what are you going to do? It's only going to get worse, I imagine, so there's really no point in complaining.
Pregnancy Battle Scars: no visible stretch marks; I have a varicose vein waiting to happen on the back of my right leg (just like my mom, oddly enough); the spider veins on my ass are unfortunately still there, but fortunately that's the only place they've shown their ugly face.
Nursery Progress: It's coming along smoothly and will post pictures when we're all finished. I am so excited to see Nolan's room all put together!

Any other pregnancy information you all would like to know?

What Not To Eat

2010-08-24T08:43:00.003-05:00

In the past 14 days, I have consumed not one, but TWO packages of Oreos accompanied with countless glasses of milk. I kid you not. Yeeeeeah for being pregnant?! As I got to the last cookie of each package, I would look at Aaron and ask, "Did you eat any of these?" As he slowly shakes his head...

A Little Hiccup

2010-08-19T08:02:00.002-05:00

Dearest Nolan,

You gave Mommy and Daddy a bit of a scare yesterday. Mommy was admitted to the hospital with early contractions. We do want to meet you so so bad, but you're only 27 weeks today. Please stay in there and continue to grow as long as you can!

I woke up yesterday around 2:45am with severe pain, not knowing what it was. After getting ready for and heading to work I still had the pain; not quite as bad, but the tightness and dull pain were still there. Aaron insisted I call the doctor. I was embarrassed they were going to tell me it was just gas. Last week after my glucose screening we found out I'm anemic. Among other things, one of the side effects of the iron pills is constipation, so I was sure that had to be it. My OB's nurse said they wanted to see me anyways so they could rule some possibilities out. Not even five minutes into my examination, my OB said I was having contractions and would be admitted to the hospital. That's when my stress level pretty much hit the roof, but Daddy reassured me that you would be okay. Turns out you are sailing along with flying colors and it was just Mommy's body that was having the issues, but I'll get to that in a minute. The next ten minutes passed in a blur as we were checked in to the hospital and given a stream of information about what's going on. The original plan was to keep me overnight to observe you and Mommy. I was hooked up to monitors across my belly,--which you proceeded to kick so hard we could see them moving up and down (!)--given an IV of fluids, and a very painful steroid shot in the hiney to help with the progression of your lungs in case the situation were to get worse. You see, as much as we love you already, we don't want to see you until at least week 36. After that, I was pretty much fine. Your heart rate was at a whopping 162 and you were moving around like a jumping bean. Monitors showed your neurological age to actually be at 32 weeks! I'm not exactly sure what that means. Maybe you'll be the next Albert Einstein? I do know that you're going to be the best Nolan Harper there ever was, and that's perfect for Daddy and me. We'll soon teach you that you can accomplish anything you set out to do.

It turns out you weren't the issue at all; just Mommy it seems. The monitors showed that I had two more contractions, but they weren't painful enough for me to even feel them. Instead of overnight, we were discharged after several hours of observation and fluids. I have to head back this afternoon for an additional steroid shot and more observation just for precautionary measures.

Again, we can't wait to meet you, but we do need you to wait just a little bit longer! When you are good and ready, I promise we'll kiss you and hug you tight soon enough.

Love you so so much,

Mommy

Bush Family's Macaroni & Cheese

2010-08-17T14:52:00.002-05:00

No, I am not referring to the First Family, although my grandmother's name is Barbara Bush. No lie. Anyhoo, over the years I've had a number of people ask me for this recipe after trying my cheesy dish of goodness. This recipe has been passed down through generations and now I'm passing it on to you. Please don't tell my father I'm sharing, though, because he'll probably have a conniption fit. And sorry, there aren't any measurements. I don't use any when making this. Just go with taste.

Bush Family's Macaroni & Cheese:
*Large elbow macaroni, cooked
*Shredded sharp cheddar cheese
*Sugar
*Salt
*Pepper
*Butter
*WHOLE milk

Preheat oven to 350. In a baking dish or foil pan, size of your choice, spread cheese and sprinkle some sugar to coat bottom of pan. Then layer: Noodles, cheese (don't be stingy), sugar, little bit of salt and pepper, butter. Continue layering until you're out of noodles.

At this point, cover and stick in fridge if you aren't cooking immediately. If you are cooking right away, fill about a 1/4 of the pan to a little less with milk. Bake, uncovered, for an hour...depending on how crispy you like the top layer. I sometimes go for an hour and five minutes for extra crispiness.

Enjoy!

Baby Bedding? Check.

2010-08-16T15:42:00.003-05:00

I think I'm finally starting to get in productive mode. We finished our baby registries this weekend: Babies 'R Us, Target, and (my personal favorite) Paris Baby. Aaron primed the nursery walls yesterday and we bought the paint. We went with Light French Gray, by the way. We assembled the changing table yesterday and let the dogs test it out. And today, I bought Nolan's bedding!

This isn't his crib or how I plan to decorate his nursery. Still working on ideas for that. The main colors for his room will be gray, black, white and light green.

Theo and Maverick had to test the changing table out, so Nolan will have to accept slightly used. ;)

Mommy Like

2010-08-13T14:15:00.004-05:00

Charlie by Timi & Leslie

So Mommy bought. Diaper bag purchased? Check.

(different views...but I purchased the Teal shown above)

Yes, I am this excited over a bag that is soon to hold diapers, dirty clothes and wipes. Welcome to my life.

Belly Progress

2010-08-12T14:23:00.003-05:00

I'm officially 26 weeks today! These were taken last week (obvs), but my bump hasn't changed much. I'll take pics again closer to the 30 week mark. It's truly crazy watching my stomach grow and grow and grow.....

my outfit to a friend's shower. the top is from Nordstrom's junior dept. most maternity clothes are hideous and I'm in denial that I'm THAT big. ;)

Nolan is an active little boy! He's strong enough that both Aaron and I can feel him moving around now. Aaron actually does fist bumps and then 'blows them up' against my stomach. I have a lot of male bonding in my future...
I have officially put on 15 pounds now. No idea if that's normal, but as long as he's healthy, I'm ok with that. However, the spider veins that I recently noticed ON.MY.ASS. better not plan on taking permanent residence there or we're going to have serious issues. You will be tortured via laser if you don't hop on someone else's train after baby is born.
Cravings still haven't come, so I'm guessing I completely missed out on that this pregnancy. Morning sickness never happened, either. Just the occasional upchuck moment, but I can handle that.
Nolan's nursery is no where near finished. As in, we picked the paint but only half the walls are primered. Aaron has been super busy with work, and let's face it...I'm not going to do it. The room has been cleaned out, but not the closet (still housing all my clothes & shoes), and that's about as far as we've gotten. I know it will get done, but I'm feeling bad that I'm not all gung ho about finishing.
Except for the shower hosted by my coworkers, my baby shower dates have been set. My mom is throwing me a luncheon in my hometown Sept. 11th and my big shower will be here Sept. 25th. We still have one place to register with, which we're doing this weekend.
Last night we registered for a 'prepared childbirth series' of classes. I'm excited about it all minus watching a videoed birth. It's going to happen...I don't need to see it. Watching someone else's birth isn't going to make mine any less painful or traumatic.
We're doing our research now on cord blood banking. Haven't made a final decision, but pretty sure we will donate instead of bank. Any thoughts on this or is it too personal?
Getting more and more anxious to meet our Little Man!! =)

Favorite Color

2010-08-11T15:12:00.001-05:00

My new favorite polish color:

OPI Romeo & Juliet

described as a deep garnet. I'm loving it on my toes right now.

Summer Reading

2010-08-10T21:24:00.002-05:00

I haven't been as voracious a reader lately from all my parenting magazines, preparing for baby and flat out just being tired. I have managed to read these books so far this summer, though:

naturally I HAD to read this again before the movie came out

really great parenting advice--highly recommend for new or even second time parents

Up next on my reading list:

this one doesn't come out until later this month, but I can't wait to finish the final chapter of The Hunger Games.

Registering for Baby

2010-08-09T12:43:00.004-05:00

A couple weeks ago Aaron and I started our baby registry. Before we did this I had the smarts to ask some of my mommy friends what items were 'must-haves' and 'don't bothers,' so luckily walking into Babies 'R Us didn't completely blind side us. And by completely, I mean we were a teensy bit prepared. We didn't sign up for the useless items like wipe warmers and a bottle sterilizer contraption. I mean, hello....What's the kid's poor ass going to say when you're out and about and have to change his diaper in a hurry? "Oh no thank you. I'll keep the shit on my rear until we get home so I can have a warm wipe." I don't think so. I still don't really understand the need for a bottle sterilizer. Doesn't the bottle only have to be sterilized the first time you use it? So can't I just use a pot of boiling water? Problem solved and no extra counter/cabinet space wasted. I'm going to be such a sympathetic Mother.....

All the tips in the world from my mommy friends couldn't have prepared me for walking into the breastfeeding section, though. OH.MY.GOD. I've pretty much been up to my eyeballs in butt creams and nipple guards ever sine. Say what? Yes, apparently these particular items come in many different brands (which is best for my baby's butt?) and sizes. How the heck am I supposed to know what size nipple guard/shield I'll need? Exactly. And, naturally, my husband found it necessary to put these shields up to his own chest saying he could use these for chaffing in the summer. Awesome. The other mothers were walking by with looks of utter shock at us clueless parents-to-be. Needless to say, after starting our registries with Babies 'R Us and Target, we still haven't completed them. I'd also love to register with our friends at Paris Baby, but we aren't doing that until this Saturday.

So I'm asking for help from the Mommies: Can you check out our registries and see what I've missed? You can search us by Erin/Aaron Ellis, TX @

Babies 'R Us

Target

I appreciate the help!

Date Night

2010-08-05T14:33:00.003-05:00

With some lapses, we have stuck fairly strong to our Thursday Date Nights. Tonight I get to pick the restaurant, H3, and since I've been feeling all kinds of sentimental lately I figured I would throw in a sweet card for the hubs.....

Buahahaha. Love the man to pieces.

Youth in Revolt

2010-08-03T09:05:00.002-05:00

Actor Michael Cera is a hit or miss for me. This time, he was a miss...by a mile. Despite what the movie poster says, I wish I hadn't wasted my time watching Youth in Revolt. This 'comedy' was slow and mostly just awkward overall. If you haven't watched it, I say Pass when it comes up on your Netflix queue.

Feeling Nolan

2010-08-02T09:30:00.002-05:00

I had a little scare last week when all was quiet in my tummy for several days. Right when my other better half, Dez, had convinced me to call the dr, I had a prenatal massage that got him active again. Baby Nolan has been moving around quite a bit ever since. I guess he knew he gave me a scare. Last night was no exception. After Aaron and I laid in bed, Nolan decided to have a bounce house party inside Mommy. That's fine by me. He isn't big enough to hurt me; it actually tickles more than anything. Nolan was really going to town, so I thought just maybe he was powerful enough to have Daddy feel him from the outside. Aaron had his hand on my stomach off and on for ten minutes. It was just once, but Nolan was ready to show off for Daddy and gave him a nudge even he could feel.

Nolan, I love you more than life itself. You gave Mommy, and probably Daddy, the warmest feeling we've ever had.

And I got a different sense of love last night, too. There is nothing sexier than your husband laying his hand on your stomach to feel his baby. =)

There's Not an App for That

2010-07-29T09:40:00.003-05:00

My love affair with my iPhone officially ended yesterday. AT&T plus the iPhone brought me nothing but dropped calls and horrible reception. Where's the app that fixes that problem, uh Apple? I couldn't take one more conversation where I only heard bits and pieces or had to call the person back five times just to get a complete sentence out. The only reason I didn't smash the phone to smithereens several times was due to my utter devotion to iTunes. I heart my music, but couldn't take the actual phone any longer. So alas, yesterday was my last game of 'Words with Friends.' I will miss parts of you for sure, but won't miss the headaches and frustration you have caused. Working with your customer service departments only confirms my decision to switch phones and service providers. You have now been turned into nothing but a very expensive iTouch. At least I have my music.

Enter the Blackberry Curve 8530 with Verizon. I pray to the phone gods that you are good to me. Because my music is now stored on another device, I have no qualms with throwing you to the ground and smashing you to bits. Do not tempt me. I have yet to figure you out, but I'm hoping that's because I've had the iPhone for so long and you are both so so different.

Daddy To Be

2010-07-27T21:48:00.003-05:00

One of the most fun things about this pregnancy is watching Aaron get so excited about and preparing for fatherhood. He is going to be an amazing daddy. I can't wait for our little man to arrive! Monday night Aaron attempted...and eventually conquered...assembling his new Baby Bjorn. I was pretty much peeing in my pants with laughter watching the results. I just had to share:

I'm hoping Theo plans to share...

Netlfix Doesn't Disappoint

2010-07-27T13:27:00.002-05:00

I wasn't stoked about either of these movies when they came in the mail, but now I'm a fan of both.

Loved.

Home Sweet Home

2010-07-26T13:22:00.002-05:00

Actually I've been home since Thursday, but have since hosted my parents at our place and wanted to stay away from the computer for just a little bit longer. Miss me?

Our vacation in Cabo was a blast, as expected. The trip included spending most of our days lounging in/by the pool; drinking massive amounts of water and nothing else (for myself, anyways); a private snorkeling excursion; getting stung by jellyfish on said excursion..four effing jellyfish to be exact. When the driver of our sailboat offered to pee on me, I politely told him he could keep it in his pants; late night walks on the beach; spending much needed quality time with best friends and family; naps; yummy Italian dinners...Mexican food doesn't sit well with Nolan. He even made me vomit it through my nose after I forced myself to eat it just one time for lunch. He's already a stinker; tanning in my bikini...yep, I said bikini; and just laughing it up.

Did I want to come home and face reality again? No, of course not. But then again, I missed my two babies/pups very very much and am ready to really get cracking on all things Nolan. Over the weekend Aaron and I started two baby registries with Babies 'R Us and Target. Overwhelming to say the least. I was up to my earlobes in nipple guards and butt cream. Oh joy. I'm no where near finished with our registry, but it's a start. I'm currently 23 weeks and getting anxious to meet this little guy. Not quite ready yet, though. I am really enjoying this time with him, too. Over the last couple of weeks I've finally started to feel Nolan rolling around in there and I can't even begin to describe the feeling. Luckily I've had it pretty easy these last 5 1/2 months, so I'm really enjoying being pregnant.

Give me a week and I'll soon be caught up with all your blogs. Missed you!

Viva La Cabo!

2010-07-16T09:37:00.003-05:00

Last day left before we're headed to the beautiful Cabo San Lucas! We won't be back until Thursday of next week. I am so ready for nothing but lounging by the pool with a good book and virgin daquiris. We have nothing planned but a private snorkeling trip on Monday. No watches, no schedule, no work....LOVE. Adios muchachas! Te echare de menos! (I will miss you) xoxo, E

(above photos provided by WeHeartIt.com)

Here's hoping Aaron doesn't end up like this....

Indecisive Much?

2010-07-13T20:25:00.002-05:00

I previously mentioned I was having a bit of a dilemma picking out a paint color for Nolan's nursery. Yeah, so I totally wasn't kidding.....

I realize the picture looks a bit wonky, but that's what this one wall in his nursery now looks like. More like a patchwork quilt. The wall is already a sky blue color. But because I'm pregnant and crazy, I don't want that color for Nolan anymore. He's a new addition to our family so he needs a whole new room. Right? Aaron painted most of the wall with a primer (hence the white) so we (I) could test out all EIGHT samples I've gathered. I have finally narrowed it down to two, though. It's a small room so I want a lighter color to open the space up a bit, especially since most of his furniture will be black. I'm going for a grey/blue. A little help would be appreciated please! Check out my poll up there on the right side of my blog to help me decide between the Light French Gray and Rocky Mountain Sky.

Hello My Lovelies

2010-07-07T12:53:00.002-05:00

Life has been pretty busy this past week, although it feels like I haven't been doing much of anything. But work has been crazy and being in the sun all weekend really wore this pregnant woman out. I feel like if I'm not actually sleeping, I've been sleep walking. We did have a nice, relaxing holiday weekend followed by a much needed Monday off work.

Friday night was spent at the movies watching Eclipse...again. If you don't know by now, I have a slight obsession with these sparkly vampires. And man oh man did Mr. Edward look good on screen...both times. Plus, who could resist when their husband comes home with tickets to the movies without even asking me first?! He sure knows a speedy way to my heart...and other areas. ;)

I don't remember much of Saturday. I'm hoping forgetfulness is a temporary pregnancy side effect. I think it included picking out more paint samples?

Sunday I picked up yet another paint sample for the nursery before we headed to the in-laws. We spent the day by the pool soaking in the rays, eating, gossiping and shooting fireworks with the whole family.

Monday was my husband's 29th birthday! We both had the day off for once so we had a nice lunch out, more shopping for Nolan and spending the rest of the day recouping from the weekend. I also picked up THREE more paint samples........Yes, I'm going crazy. I'll post about the paint later.

I hope you all had a fabulous holiday weekend! When I'm fully revived and have longer than 10 minutes, I'll catch up on all your lovely blogs.

I'm ALL Boy

2010-07-03T16:35:00.002-05:00

And proud to show it! Here's Nolan's 20 week sonogram photo...

He's kicking me like crazy in this photo, but I can't feel a thing. So weird.

The Perfect Day

2010-07-01T13:08:00.002-05:00

While most of the time people are giving an answer to the queer question, 'What is your idea of the perfect date?' I can describe to you the perfect DAY. Because it totally happened to me yesterday. My mom came to town Tuesday evening. Aaron made us yummy fajitas for dinner. He's really getting to be a whiz on the grill. Then the perfect day happened come Wednesday morning....

We started off the day with our 20 week sonogram. Baby Boy is definitely a boy! And boy oh boy was he proud to show us so!!! I'll post sono pics later. The experience was simply magical. There were tears (even from the radiologist) and laughter, oohs and aahs. Even though I can't physically feel him, Nolan is quite the active little boy already. He was moving around, bouncing with my giggles, and kicking at the sonogram machine on my tummy. The tears started the second she showed us his beating heart, which happened to be the first thing. No tears from Aaron, of course, but he was gripping my leg and smiling the whole time. We're so so in love with our little boy. And cue the tears..... =)

After the appointment, we continued gushing on Nolan's pictures over Starbuck's coffees and mochas. Then Aaron had to head off to work while Mom and I spent the day together.

Mom and I brought bags of books that have been sitting on my shelves forever, long since read, to Half Price. They actually gave me money for the books. I was totally expecting a credit towards used books, but I walked away with $50! I clearly read a lot....

We stopped at a fabulous little spot in my town for lunch, Wine Down, for salad and sandwiches.

Did some shopping for Nolan, of course.

And naturally what could make a perfect day even more perfect? Catching Eclipse with Mom and some of my favorite ladies! OH EM GEE Eclipse was awesome. True to the book, and fit everything in without dragging it out. Love, action, lots of Edward. Yum. And Emmett was looking pretty feroshe himself. Vampires. Yum Yum.

I dropped Mom off at the house before heading to my massage appointment. Aaron got me a gift certificate for my bday, but I wasn't able to use it until after I got out of the first trimester and then the masseuse was booked for a while. Most amazing massage ever! I'm not sure if it's just because I'm extra sore due to pregnancy or this masseuse was that good, but oh man was it a lovely hour. I've already booked my next appointment with her.

The perfect day ended with Aaron & I playing backgammon (dork, maybe, but I love that game) while Mom cooked us a delicious fettucine alfredo for dinner. We had the in-laws over for dinner and dessert.

Yesterday was truly a fantastic day. Screw the perfect date, because if I could have another one of these days asap, I'd be in heaven.

The Waddle

2010-06-30T06:59:00.001-05:00

At twenty weeks pregnant, it's a walk I've come to perfect. I never understood why being pregnant made women walk different. I get it now. Waddling certainly helps to alleviate my lower back pain, but really I've taken to waddling so my thighs aren't constantly rubbing together. Shaving down there doesn't happen quite as often these days, so the risk of starting a forest fire from the friction is much higher. And, seriously, I had no idea thighs could rub together this much! I had thought most of the weight gained had gone right to my stomach, but obviously I've got a few inches growing around my thighs. Thank you Baby Nolan. I felt the fire from the hemorrhoids that had taken up permanent residence on my ass in the first trimester. I'm not too keen on feeling any more heat down there any time soon, thank you very much. And another thing...Where's the wedgy proof undies? Thongs won't be seeing this crack again for a while. Constantly picking at my ass is so not acceptable around the office. TMI? Tough cookies. That's pregnancy for 'ya. It's not all rainbows and butterflies, Ladies, but it is still one of the most beautiful amazing experiences a woman can have. In conclusion: Perfect The Waddling, my fellow preggos. It's a precautionary measure for you and those around you. ;)

Frogs and Snails and Puppy Dogs' Tails...

2010-06-29T09:27:00.001-05:00

...that's what little boys are made of. May be so, but that doesn't mean I want them all over my son's clothes. Have you seen the selection of baby boy's clothes these days? It's worthless. They have whole stores and large sections in department stores dedicated to little girls, while the boys get an 8' x 8' section in Dillards and even smaller in Children's Place. Where's the all boys store? Which gives me an idea, but I'll save that for another day. And I'm talking about baby boy clothes. From newborn to about age 5, boys get shafted in the wardrobe department. I apparently have a very different view on what's stylish and adorable enough for my son than what little kid designers are thinking. I'm not a fan of puppies, trains, or queer little sayings making an appearance on my son. And who wants to pay $25 for a Ralph Lauren Polo onesie that he'll be able to fit into for roughly two weeks? Granted I know Nolan will wear next to nothing while he's at home, pooping and spitting up all day, but when we're out in public the kid's got to look good. Any advice on where to find trendy baby boy clothes that won't cost a small fortune? The rare times I come across stylish clothes, I swipe them up. But that's really few and far between.

A few more items to add to Nolan's practically bare wardrobe...

HELP!!

Summer Shows

2010-06-24T21:22:00.005-05:00

Summer brings the premiere of up and coming shows. With all my favorite shows on typical summer break, minus Chelsea Lately and Top Chef, I've set my dvr to record these newbies:

Per usual for ABC Family, this show is centered around high school girls. I'm not a huge fan of this channel because of the ridiculously bad acting and targeted age group, but I also can't get enough of '10 Things I Hate About You.' This show actually has good acting and a seemingly strong storyline that keeps getting better, though. I'm definitely staying tuned.

This show just premiered last Sunday, but I think I'll keep watching. As quoted on google, it's 'Desperate Housewives' meets 'Buffy.' Cute men, lots of characters, a dark story line, and lots of scandal to ensue I'm sure.

Two episodes in and I can't get enough. These ladies work well together and can each hold their own with their different personalities. Tons of funny little zingers. And who doesn't love Betty White?

Up In The Air

2010-06-24T21:02:00.003-05:00

Major snooze fest. I get the message and all that, but it was still a sleeper. And I totally saw that coming with Alex. Whore. The only thing that kept me going during this movie was laying on my new Snoogle that came in the mail today while Aaron gave me a back massage. He's a keeper. The Snoogle is the best thing since sex. No lie. I can't wait to get a decent night's sleep tonight thanks to this magnificent pillow. It's ginormous so Aaron may be sleeping on the couch, but it's well worth my sanity.

Head over to my bff Dez's blog. She's starting a new weekly post called Try It Thursdays. She works for a local distributor and is going to share tips, tricks and pairings on all the beers her company distributes.

Friggin' Twilight

2010-06-24T10:26:00.002-05:00

I heart Jersey Shore. The guidos and guidettes may get a bit annoying at times, but they aren't dumb. They have used their big hair, fake tans, bad accents and airheaded-ness to quickly rise to fame. My favorite New Jersians brought out their full greasiness and hard rock hair to bring the funny in this Twilight spoof:

Friggin' Twilight

Upcoming Product Review

2010-06-22T15:16:00.003-05:00

CSN contacted me to conduct a product review. Yipee! Since I won't be able to review one of these snazzy dining room tables, I'm waiting for this uber cute storage bin to arrive in the mail. As soon as it arrives, I'll host a review complete with pics of how I've decided to use this. I'm thinking toy storage for Nolan's room..... =)